Reuben Mathew


Personality Development & Life Coach

Reuben Mathew is a gifted Personality Development & Life Coach. He specializes in helping individuals facing identity crisis, negative thoughts and those with speech problems. His patience and keen observation are his core strengths. Since 2016 he has been helping individuals and groups be better, do better and perform better. He has conducted 600 hours of insightful sessions among students and professionals. Transforming hundreds of people, he is regarded as an Influencer and the Changemaker. He strongly believes that life is the source of all good.

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Reuben’s Radical Approach


1What is Personality Development?

Of all the things God has bestowed us, our personality is the most valuable. It is what makes us persons, thus causing us to be different from the animals. It is also what has made us to be the crown of creation—God’s masterpiece. Our personality is made up of three main parts which are the intellect, the will, and the emotions. This program has been designed in order to help you enrich your intellect, strengthen your will, and use your emotions to become a better person.

2What are the key benefits of personality development?

Here are some of the key benefits of personality development.

  • Provides self-awareness and better understanding of oneself
  • Enhances communication and interpersonal skills
  • Increases confidence and self-esteem
  • Improves leadership qualities and decision-making abilities
  • Builds resilience and coping mechanisms

3What is Life Coaching?

Life coaching is, in general terms, the process of coming along side someone and helping them identify where they are, where they must be and how to get there. It improves your performance your competitiveness and productivity by identifying the skills and talents you have then supporting you to develop the confidence to use those whilst opening your thinking to realise others which are available. It is different from counseling. Counseling focuses on the past and how to recover from its effects so you can function well in the present. Life coaching looks forward and encourages you to develop strategies for overcoming hindrances, and achieving goals.

Area of Expertise


Self-Management


Overcome Anxiety & Negativity


Public Speaking


Resolve & Improve Relationships


Time Management


Team Building


Leadership Skills


Goal Setting


Self-Awareness


Overcome Relationship Breakup


Problem Solving


Effective Communication


Parenting


Overcome Stammering


Confidence Building


Speech & Drama


  • The whole program is great to learn and be confident speaking in English. I myself had issues with confidence but this course helped me alot and I am seeing a major result in my confidence of speaking in English. Trainers are there for us 24/7 who help us clear our doubts, This course gave me way more than what it actually is.., motivation, encouragement, Guest speakers with their experience and what not. It is a complete package with some extra activity which is a steal deal. Go for it, if you want to overcome it and speak English language confidently. Thank you so much Besty Ma'am and Team
  • It's a great place to learn English. Learning from Ben 'n' Best not only ensures the best English but also covers the other aspects that working professionals require nowadays. I really enjoyed the session and the way our trainer conducted it. So, I recommend Ben 'n' Best to all who are looking to improve their English; it's the best place
  • Besty ma'am has guided me individually with all the modules and she was my last resort to achieve an amazing score in IELTS. I will forever be grateful to her!
  • An orderly and exceptionally well written SOP, so convincing, super. Thank you so much Besty for this!
  • Your session was so methodical, simple and interesting. It was thought -provoking and brimming with techniques, skills and ideas! Awesome.
  • Dear Besty, you are the BEST as your name Thank you very much for the elaborative and well-explained presentation. You explained each and every detail in such a simple but effective manner. Sir's short session describing how we can make drama an amazing medium of instruction while teaching English was just excellent. You both are the best and genuine mentors for the right guidance in teaching functional English. Thanks a ton dear. Waiting eagerly for the next workshop.
  • At the very outset, let me thank you for taking the time out to share the gathered wisdom of your so many years of experience in the field of functional English training. My specific objective in reaching out to you to launch my career in this particular field, stemmed from the fact that I felt a connection with you borne out of my need to learn and your zeal to share your best practices with a novice like me. The learning and the guidance which I gleaned from you the other day, I am confident shall lead me onwards onto the right path. Wish you two the very best and wait, you have not seen the end of me. There is more to come and I have much more to learn from you.
  • As Trainers provided for Sarathi Program, you were found to be very competent. I liked your dealing with different learning styles as per the different needs of students. The interaction and the mix of theory and exercise in groups was effective. The delivery of training was impeccable. You both were very interesting and entertaining, keeping student’s attention throughout the days of the course. Participation of student with role plays was great at getting into character and helping create a ‘real life situation’. It has been a pleasure dealing with Total Happiness.
  • I found out about Ben n' Best IELTS Preparatory Course through a Google search. After speaking to Besty I was convinced that she is the right person to guide me. Besty helped me score 8 bands in my first attempt. She gave extra attention and guidance on individual growth, it was very helpful. The class timings and the flow of information was very flexible and comfortable. She helped me especially with writing and speaking module - with constant practice and mock tests. I would recommend any aspirant to join her classes and get guidance to achieve a great score.
  • Jyoti Jadhav
    Your teaching helped me a lot, especially using the correct tense in the correct way. Before joining the Course, I couldn't speak in the correct tense. Now I'm very confident to speak and interact with others personally and professionally.
    Jyoti Jadhav
  • Mandar Devlekar
    Top notch IELTS coaching, In depth teaching on each section with doubt solving session, live mock test trains you for the main IELTS EXAM. Highly recommended to IELTS aspirants. Thank you Besty
    Mandar Devlekar
  • Anthea Wilson
    Did an IELTS teacher training program with Ben n Best. Well structured and systematic approach which is uniquely designed to suit every individual's learning needs. Taught efficiently and effectively by Besty to help you move up the ladder in your level of language proficiency. Highly recommended for anyone who needs flexibility in terms of timings and learning needs.
    Anthea Wilson
  • Yashika Thakur
    Besty Ma’am was of great help while through my IELTS journey, be it academically or otherwise. She helped me not only with my preparation but also believed in me even on days I didn’t. I wouldn’t have been able to crack this exam without her guidance! I got my desired bands and was able to get into my top choice of university in the UK.
    Yashika Thakur
  • Mamta, Canada
    I'm living my dream life here in Canada just due to your teachings that I got during my IELTS. For me IELTS was the biggest challenge towards my Canada journey. After failing in IELTS three times you were the one to help me with my writing test. Your perfect, excellent and detailed coaching helped me to clear my IELTS with 8 bands. I truly recommend your coaching to everyone who desires to clear their IELTS with flying colors. Thank you Besty
    Mamta, Canada

Self-Awareness

Understanding your own strengths, weaknesses, values, and beliefs to identify opportunities for self-improvement.

Self-Management

Self-management refers to the ability of an individual to take control of their own life by managing their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors in a responsible manner.

Confidence Building

Confidence building is the process of developing and improving one's self-esteem, belief in oneself, and self-assurance.

Testimonials


Stanley Alphanso

Dear Reuben Sir, I wanted to share my thoughts on the first 7 days of our 21 days program. These initial 7 days have been enlightening, and I truly value your coaching. I have observed substantial progress by self-awareness, confidence, and overall well-being. I was searching for a business coach which led me to enroll in this course and now I can say I have got more than that, a complete support system who understands each and every point of yours. The best part is you know exactly how to modify the course as per the needs of your clients. It's always good to have a person who actually listens to you and understands and ultimately guides you with the best results. Your positive and empathetic approach makes our coaching sessions not only productive but also enjoyable. Thank you for being an integral part of my life journey

Stanley Alphanso

Pradeepa Thinakaran

Dear Reuben Sir, I wanted to take a moment to express my sincere appreciation for your Personality Development and Public Speaking class. It has been an absolute pleasure to be part of your sessions, and I am grateful for your positive and motivational mentorship. Your ability to effectively explain the importance of communication skills and how to apply them as a teacher has been invaluable. The way you seamlessly connect theory with practical implementation in the context of working with children is truly remarkable. Your insights into spoken grammar have sparked great brainstorming sessions among the students, encouraging their linguistic growth and development. Thank you for creating such an engaging and enriching learning environment. Your passion for teaching and dedication to our growth is evident in every class. I feel fortunate to have you as my mentor, and I look forward to continuing this journey of personal and professional development under your guidance.

Pradeepa Thinakaran

Vishal Krishnan

The impact you have had on me reaches far beyond the realm of personality development. With your guidance, I have finally gained clarity and understanding of my innate gifts and God-given abilities. It is an exquisite revelation that leaves me humbled and awestruck, for I now possess the tools to serve others more profoundly and to make a genuine difference in their lives. You have touched my soul, widened my perspective. I wanted to express my deepest appreciation for the immeasurable impact your coaching has had on my life. I will forever cherish the moments spent under your mentorship, the introspective conversations that stirred my soul, and the profound lessons that will resound within me for a lifetime.

Vishal Krishnan

Aditi Dsouza

I appreciate the time you spent with me and found each of our meetings enjoyable. I truly give God praise for bringing us together. Earlier, I lacked confidence and was filled with self-doubt. My social skills were poor, and my relationships with friends and family suffered. Thanks to you, I have come a long way. I have started questioning things and taking initiative on my own. I am extremely grateful for your sessions as they have made me much more aware of who I am. You have taught me a great deal of information. Overall, I would rate this program a 6 out of 5.

Aditi Dsouza

Hilary Dsouza

It was a meaningful and fruitful experience to have 21 life skills sessions with you for my daughter. Previously, I thought it would be a waste of time and money. However, after talking with my ward, I slowly and gradually came to know that she has built up confidence and self-power to make her own decisions about education, career, and life. She was confused, but now she is clear. She was quiet, but now she questions.

Hilary Dsouza

Angus Nunes

It's been a few days since our sessions have commenced and I've felt nothing short of awe throughout the time I've spent with you. I can already feel like I'm improving as a person and as a human being. My perspective about myself has totally changed since I met you. Before we met, I always used to think that I'm slow and not knowledgeable, I had very less self esteem and self confidence in myself, and I always felt pathetic. But upon meeting you and talking to you, so many things and facts started to become clear to me, especially about myself and how I view the world and how I thought the world views me. I truly am grateful to have met you and spent time with you. I've started to feel more confident about myself and my self belief is also improving. I never thought that I could be such a person ever before. I thank you from the bottom of my heart and I truly love you and shall always see you as a mentor who improved me and made me a better person.

Angus Nunes

Umesh Shetty

We are sincerely thankful to you for supporting us to come out of our depression. Our ranking is 10/10 for sessions organized by you.

Umesh Shetty

Ivon Dsouza

I was nervous and negative. Your insightful sessions helped me overcome my negativity and nervousness. I'm confident and positive now.

Ivon Dsouza

Niraj Tiwari

I'm glad to share that there is no anxiety and fear in me. I'm very confident now. I thank you a lot.

Niraj Tiwari

Loretta Pinto

I must say that Mr. Reuben Mathew is a great coach and an asset to our society. He indeed carries good knowledge of the subject and has a full grasp of the topics. Both school and college students enjoyed the skill enhancing session and they learnt a lot.

Loretta Pinto

Simran Naga

Thanks a lot for giving your valuable time. We really appreciate the time and knowledge that you transferred to our girls. They all learnt a lot. In only a span of a few hours our girls learnt a lot about themselves and we really appreciate your contribution towards it.

Simran Naga

Nina Narasimhan

The Personality Development and Team Growth workshop conducted by Reuben Mathew for NUIT Solutions was really helpful. Our team members were given an opportunity to express themselves openly. There were various activities conducted which kept them engaged. Meaningful insights were given to help them realize their potential and develop a positive mindset towards life. Personal feedback for each individual was given by the Coach post session. All participants were greatly inspired and are looking forward to more of such sessions with Reuben.

Nina Narasimhan

Norma D’Silva

My Son who is 21 years old was lacking confidence, he did not know how to speak fluently, he had stage fear and did not know how to maintain eye contact while communicating. He was always afraid to express whatever he wanted to, but I believe nothing is impossible with God and so we were blessed with Reuben sir, who helped my son in bringing back his confidence, his speech clarity, speaking with eye contact, expressing himself to, respecting others and many more life changing processes. Thank you so much Sir for bringing up this change in my son.

Norma D'Silva

Priya Srinivasan

Your coaching made me strong to handle situations with ease. Your words have encouraged and strengthened me to think of a new path for my good and peaceful future.

Priya Srinivasan

Grizelda Silveira

The session I had was truly beneficial to me , it helped me stop overthinking events from the past and helped me live in the present. It made me think of who and specifically what I am.

Grizelda Silveira

Karthik Iyer

Honestly speaking I am falling short of words to express my review. But in one sentence it was fabulous, an eye opener for me.

Karthik Iyer

Asif Shaikh

An extraordinary open talk session by Reuben Mathew.

Asif Shaikh

Aishwarya Shinde

I really appreciate the time you took coaching me. The course was more than I expected! It actually teaches a broad range of very interesting topics, it is fun and engaging. I really enjoyed it. A perfect balance between lecture and productive activities made me gain real confidence.

Aishwarya Shinde

Lisha Leejoe

I am really thankful to you for being a wonderful, unique and a blessed coach in my life!

Lisha Leejoe

Abhishek Nair

Thank you so much for showing me the true self.

Balu Iyer

I am really blessed to meet you (virtually though). I was going through several issues both in personal & professional front & my mind was filled with more negativity. I was searching for a person to share my agony and seek a solution. This is when you had come to me as a Messiah to hear my problems & guide me to the correct path. Your sessions are really helping me everyday in my work front. Also these sessions are helping me immensely in my personal life, as my relationship with my spouse is growing strong which was on the verge of breaking before your sessions.

Vailanka Fernandes

It was great to learn from you. I really enjoyed your sessions. They were life lessons that everyone needed.

Sanika Vanmali

Great life lessons were taught and they changed my perspective of life on how to look forward with an optimistic attitude.

Brenda Gomes

I'm highly obliged to be present for your sessions and learnt great lesson from them.

Jay Kishore

You are one of the best coaches I have ever met in my life. Your ability to solve problems whether it's in professional or personal life has helped me a lot.

Ram Iyer

I cannot thank you enough. You're one of the reasons I quit smoking. I thought I had no purpose earlier but after talking to you I realised I have way more important stuff to do.

Shailesh D’Silva

I am very grateful to Reuben Sir for the excellent counseling work that you are doing, you are literally touching the heart of the youth.